So what you're saying is that the relationship is trending in the right direction. I'm glad to hear it, surf.
I'm in love with a woman and she is in love with me. That's a whole 'nuther thing than "I'm in love with a woman". I'd first ask myself: "was this woman raised to give a man the relational support that every man needs?".. if she's an American or Brit the answer is NO!! If she's from somewhere else the answer is: "Maybe"... If you don't know what you really need from a woman then read some titles from Jonathan Gray. You have to know what you are looking for before you go shopping and a very high percentage of people don't. Read the original book by Myers-Briggs and select the personality types that will be compatible with you.. that is a very good thing to understand. It took me a few months to get it all sorted out but wow, when I'm first talking to a woman I can zoom in on personality type like a Sherlock Holmes! You only need four questions answered and you have the Myers-Briggs type and you know more about a person than they know about themselves.. It's good to read up on psychopaths too, if you can spot those bastards you can save yourself a lot of trouble both generally and relationally...
Nitro, something for you to chew on: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relation...-marriage-and-an-affair-with-lots-of-sex.html
Whatever floats your boat. Most human beings would be devastated by such a relationship. I am not suggesting that it not work for some subset of the population, but I suspect it would not work for most.
<iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/-Di3vM5icF8?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> Annoying commercial in the beginning. Otherwise a beautiful rendition of Fur Elise
How does love happen? When I wasn't looking for love, it happened so easily. Now that I thinking I want to "get attached" (maybe in the next 5 years or so) I'm just not feeling it. And not for a lack of options. I am currently in a situation with my job where I am surrounded by dozens of quality women, some of them the hottest women I have ever known. And I'm not talking about party girls, but real women, many who have the qualities I am looking for. I am in peak shape physically, and financially well off, so my chances with these girls are pretty good. My mind says, yes I could be comfortable spending the rest of my life with the person. But where is that magic? My last real love, even my last crush, was a long time ago. I wonder how I could ever be so crazy over one person. Thinking that no one else compared. Maybe it was true.
They keep breaking the link. Here is the link to the whole movie <iframe width="640" height="360" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/VCe0nzdD76k?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
Romeo and Juliet aside, it is amazing how simple it is to make it work: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/just-listen/200911/10-habits-happy-couples?tr=MostViewed And yet, we fail in huge numbers.