Which fraternity did you join while in school? Are you still active? Are there any here of the Minerva ilk? I joined Sigma Alpha Epsilon '97, not currently very active. THE TRUE GENTLEMAN is the man whose conduct proceeds from goodwill and an acute sense of propriety and whose self-control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humble if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others rather than his own; and who appears well in any company; a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe. - John Walter Wayland Phi Alpha, pimp
You mean which "Cult" did you Join first? I find it interesting how Americans are so big into Cults. I guess they're afflicted by the Sheeple syndrome.