I was my wife's business teacher at Uni actually. No, I refuse to speak Japanese. As a "gaijin" I am a permanent outsider in Japan whether I learn the language or not, besides its VERY difficult to learn Japanese. Different forms of address for people whether they be older,younger, female, educated, uneducated... pain in the arse learning all thier rules and regulations. The best book I have to pertaining to Japan is 'Dogs and Demons' by Alex Kerr. (I will try to download a pic of my wife for your perusal shortly)
You guys sure are giving your American "sisters" a pretty hard knock. Might the attraction be that you like something that's "different" and therein lies the thrill? BTW, I don't think it's a bad thing myself , I'm just trying to put the pieces together. It's also commendable that you're stepping outside all of the cultural assumptions that go along with marrying American Caucasian women (that's assuming you're Caucasian yourself). JJ P.S. I have found foreign Caucasian women to be just as unique / exciting / beautiful / charming / enticing / lovely as any other women of any other race/culture. So while it may be true, I just hate to start generalizing across the board on what American women are or are not, and just take each situation as it comes.
American women are too fat, too selfish and expect too much for what they offer. The most important thing to them is making money and their career. Every family woman I know works and has her kids raised by a nanny or grandparents. Is that what you call parenting? I know one of them who is working two jobs because she wants more luxuries (3 cars for the family even though only 2 people can drive). The 2 jobs means she spends less time with her kids but I suppose she finds that an acceptable tradeoff. Typical American woman. What the INS needs to do is open up immigration for young women. Any single woman who is fit, attractive, and under 35 may enter the country. Within 3 years, the chicks here will be singing to a different tune when they have all this new competition.
I second that idea Deviltrader Ps. I am white but , white chicks in america are all golddiggers, we need to send them to saudi arabia to learn how to treat there man
Hahahaha, you guys are a mess. What if the INS opened the country up to every stud between the ages of 25-40 who had money to burn Then we'd really be catching hell, now wouldn't we? Plenty of flowers from every race, creed and color, I've discovered in my own experiences that you just can't generalize like that. It's up to the individual to be careful of any situation that they might be looking to get into. I mean, the next thing you are going to say is that you want a hot superfreak girlfriend, but want to marry a virgin, right? :eek: Your friend and neighbor, JJ
I have no idea where you guys are looking for dates. Are you sure you are not living on Mars? In my experience, there is a simple equation: Money + looks + intelligence + sense of humor = desirability (there other factors, but these are the big four.) Add up your desirability quotient, and if your looks + intelligence + sense of humor part falls a bit short (in relation to your date), it will be no wonder that you think that women are looking to take your money, since that is all you have left to offer. nitro