You truly are astonishingly ignorant. Apparently the Church or your "faith" wasn't able to help you. Too many women have guys like you for boyfriends or fathers, and get no support when they get pregnant. Some of you believe in superstitions that prevent early term abortions. When others don't believe in your superstitions you call it murder and rail online about it.
Look, it works like this. This universe contains a single consciousness and to while away eternity it exists as all of us, lives all lives, just in non-linear time. So you will be me, I will be you (oh no...) etc. Right, now you know how the universe actually works, would you shut up for a bit please.