playing hard-to-get with a hot chick only works if you're above average yourself. if you're a fat loser working at home depot for $8/hr, i don't think she'll care if you pretend to ignore her or fail to call her, assuming you'd even get her # in the first place. it all comes down to you as a guy: if you're good looking and financially secure, you have options. if not, lower your standards.
Girls should date the fat losers making $8/hr...at least, they won't have to worry about the guy cheating on her.
Go and visit Prague first, it will be the same as AUS after while. Instead , visit Darwin and hook up with some asian girls there.
>>Moscow is the place for girls. They fuck you twice a day>> How would a girl fuck him? I don't think he is into kink. I've had Moscovite and it was cold. Nice to look at but not really memorable in action.
Your problem seems obvious. Even though you are not consciously aware of it, there might be a self image conflict between your conscious and subconscious mind that is affecting your judgment of others. The conflict can be a very subtle or insignificant to your conscious, but it's consequences very significant. If you are not aware you are not accepting yourself at the core, it will be almost impossible to accept anybody else into your life. If this conflict didn't exist, this thread wouldn't either. I have been wrong before so you can see this as just another point of view.
Alright first off, be honest with yourself for godsakes. What are you looking for? A wife? Someone to have sex with? A one night stand with a hottie? Saying "I want a woman" is not clear enough. Be precise, depending on what you're looking for (what EVER that may be), there are better ways to go about finding it. Some people have already mentioned this, but top models and most 10s are rarely good for much. They're either ardant gold diggers who will leach onto a successful businessman who doesn't have confidence in that area of his life (women), and "wear the pants", along with his jewels. Most of them fucking SUCK in bed too, they're SOO cold and expect you to do everything. Listen to me dude, I've never bought a girl anything unless I already had a sexual relationship with her and I felt she deserved it. Before having sex with a girl, NEVER BUY HER ANYTHING. Buying her dinner, boots, rings before she's proven herself worthy of your time is basically giving her the message point blank that you, your personality and your time is not good enough for her to spend time with you, which is why you need to *buy* her time. I love my mom as much as anyone, but all women are prostitutes. There's the 15$ hookers that blow truck drivers, the 200 euros an hour in Paris, and then there's the CONTRACT prostitutes, also known as: a wife. You better think VERY carefully who you're gonna marry, that woman can and will walk away with half your dough and all of your heart. I've seen too many good successful people being ruined by gorgeous golddiggers looking for a good deal. If you're looking for good sex, you want a woman who's kinky, horny, warm, maybe a bit naive, can move in bed and likes to be dominated. I'd much rather have a bi-sexual 8 who loves sex and isn't using her sexuality as a bargaining chip than a 10 who sees her good looks and her vagina as golden ticket to high society. But the thing is all women love sex, it's just that some of them control themselves and are holding out for a sugerdaddy (it's NOT worth it). That's why I LOVE LOVE American, Australian, anglo-saxon, and most scandinavian and germanic women. A lot of them are confident enough, comfortable enough, socially important enough for you to be honest with them. But if you give them the opportunity to exploit you and your financials, they WILL take that opportunity. They look at what you're willing to cough up, (money, sex, whatever...), and take whatever they're interested in. I've met a lot of good looking women who, once they become attracted to someone, just need that person to do the right steps to bring them into bed. Having sex with a woman is probably one of the best ways to start a relationship or atleast a decent friendship. BE HONEST. I've told women that I thought they would look amazing covered in my seamen shortly after meeting them and shortly before having sex with them. By the way, if you want to use your money and score women that way, I don't look down on that either. But as someone who values his time and his money, I prefer living it up with someone who likes me for me, and not for my money (although the freedom money provides you can go a long way). It's true, being an introverted, unfashionable, neglected, socially-awkward geek who is not in touch with his emotions might not get you far. But I'm sure you've got a lot of great stuff already in you that people (and women) will be attracted to. You just need get a chance to display those qualities. Women are like stocks, some are undervalued, some are overvalued. I don't think I need to explain the benefits of being with an undervalued woman or the disadvantages to investing time, money and, more painfully still, emotional energy into an overvalued woman. After a while, much like a good stock picker, you can tell VERY quickly who is undervalued or overvalued. Who is worth your time. It's true, you can hit on a perfect cover page 10 who thinks the world revolves around her, shake her up a bit and maybe she'll see how valuable you are. But since those women are so used to being selfish brats, I'm not even sure if it's worth your time. Sometimes all they know is how to take, and not to give. For them, you spending time with her is always giving you enough, until they realize that you don't even care about looks that much. Then they completely fall apart most of the time. For a woman who's invested so much into her physical apparence, a man who isn't wooed by her looks completely screws with her self-esteem. It's sad, but I treat 10s like absolute brainless 3 year old babies, fuck their brains out and after all has been said and done, they have nothing more to offer me. I'm generalizing as it always depends on the woman. Rest assured, there are beautiful, warm, kinky and intelligent women out there but they're rare. When you see a 10, your first gut instinct is to have sex with her, there's no garantee you want anything else from her (or even sex in the first place, she might be a fucking cold fish). I usually LOVE the really hot ones that come from broken families. I think it was Freud that pointed it out, but those types of people are looking for the love moma and daddy didn't give them, and are crazy in bed. Just be loving, all accepting, never judge them, be nice. Do not put up with bullshit, but forgive when she makes mistakes. Become an openly sexual person if you want sex. Be honest with your interet, but DON'T be needy, clingy or desperate. Realize that with what you have going on, you can walk away from any woman you've (just) met and find someone equally as attractive who is attracted to you and who you are and will treat you with respect. I DEMAND respect from all the women who want to be in my life (from everyone actually). You do NOT have to put up with even ONE second of trash second-class behavior from anyone, you are free to walk away and meet new people at any instant. The power someone has over you is the power you give them. The world is full of new people. If an honest girl sends you emails, tells you she thinks of you all the time, loves to have sex with you, treats you with respect, makes you life, connects with you, shares with you, THAT'S a good investment of your time, money, energy, emotions. However, someone who sees you as dirt and treats you like dirt, never puts out, hates sex for whatever reason, only causes trouble and drama, is dishonest, manipulative, insane, spoiled etc.... is a bad investment. Put your emotions and your sexual urges on the side and think objectively about every girl you meet and objectively evaluate the behavior she gives at you. Most women play hard to get, are shy at first, etc...that's normal, and it's usually a good sign when they put up a bit of a fight at first. But there's a point when all that has to stop, if that point never comes, (ie: she never calls back, always flakes), thank your stars you realized this and move on to the next babe that's worth your time. Psychologically, you are attracted to people who are attracted to you (as long as they meet your standards). If you're with a girl and she makes you feel good, that is the most important thing in the world. If you're trying to go out with 10s because you want to prove your worth to yourself and others, you have lost. Anyway dude, I can go at it for hours. Traveling is an AMAZING experience, make sure you go to a country who's women particularly attract you. Remember, your satisfaction and happiness is what's most important to you. What other people think of you or the women you're dating is irrelevant. I dated a goth chick that made my neighbor stop talking to me. She was so much fun that I couldn't care less what Billy the mechanic next door thought of her, he ain't getting any. Personality is what's MOST important. Looks are secondary. I have a butt ugly friend who gets very hot women, it has nothing to do with his looks (on top of it his short and has a small dick)
is this thread where all the losers offer their advice on how to get a girl??? well, I might as well add my 2 cents. in the course of human history there probably has never been a point when the dynamics between men and women so fundementally changed in such a small period of time than the past 30-20-10 years ... women no longer need men, and their first directive is to prove just that. I suspect someone, somehwere has charted dildo sales, and no doubt it's gone exponential... well, ... i need another drink