That seems rather expensive. I believe Depends adult diapers are much less expensive if you get them in bulk-packs from Costco.
WTF is that avatar pic? Like a cross between a troll from Lord Of The Rings and a fluffy house cat on a bender. Dest is not a normal person. I like it.
Would be helpful if the chat room organizer can see the IP address of all the participants and then can eject problem participants and then ban them from rejoining according to IP addresses in case if they try to rejoin under a new alias/username. Would take a load off admin.'s shoulder
Well whoever creates the chat room is the organizer and should get to set the rules. Everybody who goes into that chat room needs to abide by these rules or risk getting ejected. You don't like it, don't go into that chat room. There is still a whole forum for you to participate in as long as you abide @Baron and @Magna's rules.
I am guessing the problem is also that there was never a full-time moderator for the room. @Baron Could make it a premium service, where users would pay a small fee to be in the chatroom each month. I dunno'...5 bux per month? Just tossing out numbers here.
In terms of monetization, I'd also consider tokenizing likes or like ratios or something along those lines.... the same way you can skip the boring "farming" aspects of a video game by just buying "credits" instead. Leveling up should cost something; time or money. It's game development 101 these days.