You are right in that I do not have the finances necessarily to deliver the actual "goods". As you can see I am fairly ignorant in this subject and am just going by what the site said, which by definition is what I do is it not? I am posting here because it's the only place out of several that I checked online that actually considered that definition as trade. That's why I am seeking some second opinions from what I'm hoping are informed people here.
Except for what I wrote above the only meaningful thing "lay people" (i.e. not immigration specilists by trade) can say "I've done it. It worked for me." or "I tried and got a refusal." and no one has done so yet. If you keep this topic up maybe someone will contact you via PM. If you are looking for a free specialist advice, you are better off asking the question on forums dedictaed to immigration (perhaps, specifically immigration from your country). Also asking advice from an immigration firm that works on the no visa-no fee basis can be an option (I can't recommend a particular firm in the US from personal experience).
Thank you. I appreciate your help on this topic. I came here first because it's familiar territory and also I expect people here to know things like this the people elsewhere to understand what I do for a living. I will take your advice and look on immigration forums.