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I think the problem comes from misunderstandings. Frankly, imo men don't understand women and don't respect the tremendous risk they take when they chose a partner. If you respect this alone, you have perhaps 50% of the understanding you need. The other ~50% is understanding the balancing act that women make between impressing their friends, not disappointing their family, and finally genetic preferences for features that are common to their clan. But in the melting pot that is the US, that is becoming less important. Finally, of course, the culture she lives in. In the US mostly dictated by Hollywood and television. To these she gives a weight depending on how important the given parameter is, consciously or subconsciously. In any event, these are the important eigenvalues imo that you need when you need to understand most women. That they can juggle all this complexity without going crazy is rather amazing actually. All we want is beer, sex, and a sandwich. KISS. When it comes to meeting women, the problem with most men imo is that men are far less adaptable, and perhaps far worse a character trait when it comes to finding a compatible partner, we don't network. We sit and watch Monday Night Football, go to work, etc. Women are constantly networking, constantly changing with fashion, seeking, probing, constantly measuring what men they can or can't attain. In response, men start to play games, hey, if I play hard to get or fuck with your head by going after your GF, I can keep you confused, that means you can't get me or I can keep you guessing, so I create the illusion that I deserve you. It is a mess. I hate to break it to you, but women choose men in modern times, no matter all the BS you try. They hold pocket A's and the flop came A22. If we were gentlemen and just fun to be with without all the bullshit, not only would we not mess the women up for the guy she really should be with at that moment in her life (there are lots of right people, but they only realize this later in life), other men would return the favor. There would be a code of honor amongst us. May the best man at a given time for a given woman win. No hard feelings after that. If you are having a problem finding a woman that doesn't "understand you", consider the following. At the end of "It's a Wonderful Life", George opens a Christmas card from his guardian angel Clarence. In it, it says "No man who has friends is a failure" or something to that effect. Think on this for a moment, the impact of networking. If you genuinely like your friends, it becomes a great source of potentially compatible mates. Six degrees of separation type of thing. Friends that care about you will say, you know, we should set up Rossalynd and Joe... Otherwise, why not try Match.com, etc? I know I didn't really delve on your statement. But seriously, I think it is better to change ourselves that to press the negative.