ftrader Im very successful manager myself. When its close relatives like brothers,sisters, mom, dad, my grandparents,and uncles and they would ask for money I would never hesitate. I have never in life said no to family. Especially if it were my brothers,sisters, parents, and grand parents. Even my uncles. It might be diffrent cultures,Im asian, but I was born in canada, and family might not mean much to other cultures. but family in chinese culture means everything, even more then money.
lol well chinese woman are funny creatures ;D, lol I never said we wouldnt bitch about, I said I never hesitate, but your going to get some chinese swears in it, but in the end family is family right
Maybe if you would quit tokin' on the "hydroblunts" you too could become a successful trader instead of a jealous, whiny beeyotch!!
I have LENT (was supposed to be paid back) well over $250,000 in the last 9 years or so. They are grateful and kisssing *** the day they get the money and then they forget who the hell I am. I have 8 brothers and sisters also. I told them all the bank was closed for good.
Unfortunate situation. I can only imagine the first relative to get a "loan" probably encouraged your other siblings to get their share. Its pretty much impossible to loan people money, it almost always turns into a gift cause if you try to collect you pretty much end the relationship on the spot.
well in your case it depends on what kind of people they are, and how close they are to you, I live in a very close family, and for me personally for me i was never a show me wealth type of person. I like living in my neighborhood, which is a middle class, university type neighborhood. I was never into driving fancy cars, in fact whenever I get the chance I like to take the bus, *its victoria bc, if you know the city, you know what I mean*, or bike or walk. I could never imagine living in any other place in the world. Victoria is a great place, it might not have that metropolitan feel of new york or even a vancouver, but if you want a great lifestyle for yourself or to raise a family, its victoria.
Well I didn't have the hook ups to get an internship at Corithian at 17 years old at a time when MBAs will cut each others throats to get the same internship. Regardless, I think half of their "top 30" are complete crap as I posted the link from a thread showing just that. It's on CNBC after all, don't you know not to believe most of what you see on TV? Nor do I care to be an execution order monkey dealing with corporate politics, I like leaving by 2pm after making over a G.
It has nothing to do with "what type of people they are." I know for a FACT that YOU have NEVER lent a sizeable amount of money to anyone. Try it sometime and see how people change. I'm in a close family also, this means nothing. People change when they owe big money. Show me type of money has nothing to do with it. Your family KNOWS for a FACT if you make good money. Impossible to keep it a secret. I hope one day you get rich and find out what people are really like.
lol ftrader, I guess we are diffrent people then, some people care about family and have family members who care about them, and not for their families. ...you have a nice greedy family there
lol and please no which is better Canada or usa debate. I was in a thread and it got very ugly. Everybody was throwing out, everybody dirty deeds and war crimes.