Look at the post above that.. all about you Tom B eh? sigh, that is ok, you are more like Treefrog's intellect. I can't expect much, few would have got the glass of juice pun.
Awww! your not that bad Tom B. You have broad shoulders, maybe get some contacts or laser? You could attract a woman (adult this time though?) who can look past your issues. "It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." Tony Robbins.
Remember, faggy 'projecting' talk does no good Tony says "By projecting our own hunger onto others, or by trying to adopt someone else's hunger, we buy into the fallacy that everyone is motivated by the same combination of desires. Nothing could be further from the truth and more destructive to finding your own path to success or helping to motivate others on your team to find theirs."