**Almost in Tears** Need Mentor for Futures Market.

Discussion in 'Hook Up' started by Bullz n Bearz, Jun 22, 2007.

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  1. The question you have to ask yourself is why you let the market move 7 points against you before you even bothered to cut your losses.

    Admitting you are wrong and taking the loss quickly and waiting for the next opportunity is a hard skill to develop and it takes time.

    Ask yourself where your stop was. The market moved 6 points in 15 MINUTES. This was not a sudden out of nowhere drop.
     
    #101     Jun 25, 2007
  2. gee,

    is this the american culture?

    it sucks~
     
    #102     Jun 25, 2007
  3. Oh shut up retard. Go kiss the ground 5x for being an ass.
     
    #103     Jun 25, 2007
  4. I was about to type the same thing coach. Taking a 7 point loss is just reckless. You took a risk bnb and it did not work this time. That's the problem with taking huge gambles - doesn't take much for you to be down to 0.
     
    #104     Jun 25, 2007
  5. nkhoi

    nkhoi

    I guess you take a d/top b/o but market cont. giving you clue that the trade is wrong.
     
    #105     Jun 25, 2007
  6. Why are you trading 3 lots? 1 lot until you are consistant!
     
    #106     Jun 25, 2007
  7. Cy_M

    Cy_M

    I'm really glad you'll be taking a break and looking to find a job or something. The markets are not for you, at least not just yet. You are years away from becoming a competent trader and for your info this won't happen before driving several more accounts to zero. We've all been there so don't take it personal. Just leak your wounds and move on.
    good luck
     
    #107     Jun 26, 2007
  8. hardas

    hardas

    They wish, now it's more like a Jerry Springer show crossed with cheaters and cops
     
    #108     Jun 26, 2007
  9. TraDaToR

    TraDaToR


    What were you thinking ??? 3 lots with 1500 $....How long did you survive doing this? I think it is quite a good performance if you lasted more than 2 weeks.
     
    #109     Jun 26, 2007
  10. For a while I felt like yourself.

    Sometime 5-6 months ago I realized I was a gambler. I knew some very basic things that I learned from several books, but I thought that simply because I had some knowledge, I would be successful because "I can overcome the market", "im smart", "I deserve to earn money after working so much", etc.

    Furthermore, I was focused on a desire to acquire money as fast as possible. This obstructed me from learning as in reality, I needed to focus on learning to trade well.

    At about that time I had a good wakeup call from a trader that mentors me online and from my own account numbers. At this time, I commenced paper trading and reduced any size that I would take on my real account by 1/4 just so that I could still take a position every now and then when I felt really confident.

    Then... I got even more consistent. Started trading paper every day no matter treating it as if I was making real money.

    Since then I have realized that I needed to create a trading plan. The last 2 months I have been constantly working on my trading plan, revising it everyday for observations I make in the market as well as what I read. Every "light bulb" moment I have, I write it down. I leave notes all over my room, jot down every single time I have an idea that strikes me as logical/sound in probability.

    I want to say that after I stopped trying to make money, my returns have been way more than I expected to make when I was focused on making money.

    It's said many times but it bears repeating... discipline. Have a plan, use money management, and trade your plan without deviation. You never know if something works unless you are consistent with it.

    I am in college and on summer break, so your situation may be different in terms of free time. Don't rush things, though, that's the worst you can do. Work hard, but enjoy what you are doing and don't make goals you can't realistically achieve at your current skill level.

    I do hope that you can believe me though when I tell you that if you focus on money, you will only lose it.
     
    #110     Jun 26, 2007
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