It's kind of subjective and I don't think parents would play as significant role as the society and the media.
I like the TR quote you brought forth in response Nitro. "Anyone taken as an individual, is tolerably sensible and reasonable as a member of a crowd, he is at once a blockhead." -Friedrich von Schiller
right, and there are also rich women struggle with the same problem...they have good looking guys who want to marry them for their money, easy life....its rare, but happens too... all my girlfriends want to marry for different reasons btw...only about 20-30% would marry for money
it's not that marriage for love is any better than marriage for money or vice versa, the root of the problem is this: marriage is bullshit, it's fucking 2010, pull your heads out of your asses