This may be hard for you to believe but in person/public I'm a very polite/respectful guy. Regardless of a persons station in life, color or whatever. If I walk up to someone I don't know and tell him his women is a fat disgusting slob who sucks donkey dick and he doesn't come at me, I figure he's pussy. (not that I ever would) If the guys are sitting around drinking and I make fun of a guys fat wife and he doesn't laugh, I figure he's a pussy. If a guy can't tell the difference between the two scenarios, I figure he's an idiot.
What story? More like...an analogy. Being an enlightened smarter than everyone else liberal, I'll let you interpret it however you like.