Message to smallfil Hey, I am going to kill this account in the next minute or so and if I can't figure out a way to kill it I won't be logging in again. I am leaving on a medical trip to South America for a couple months. When I get back to the US, I will not be getting a new account either - because the hate and the personal attacks here will drag a person down and will also drag me down to their level. Research has also shown that online behaviors extend to real life behaviors and influence real life behaviors - and I certainly don't want to be like some of the hateful people on here!! My e-mail is {communicated to you via the personal chat room but not sure if you will get it} and that is a good way to communicate with me. Hope you keep in touch!! ~ Stephanie