i was watching a Louie episode - the one where he gets beaten up by some woman on the street. Setup: The woman was accosting some guy at a bus stop. Louie steps in and tells her to stop. And she just starts slapping him. And then she really beats the shit out of him. Louie never swings at her or tries to stop her. He just protects himself as best he can. He can't bring himself to drop her with a punch. I've never had to deal with this scenario before in my life. But I imagine that if you take a few dozens swats to my head I'm going to lay a bitch out or at the very least subdue her - at the risk of being portrayed as a woman beater). If you are a man - How would have handled the above scenario? Have you ever had a woman come at you....?
If she put her hands on him I'd have grabbed her and put her on the ground. I she had just started smacking me I would have broke her neck. I know a guy that thought a woman was slapping him but she had a razor in her hands and messed his face up bad. There is nothing about men that makes them subjects for abuse. The idea about not hitting women is to not ABUSE them (injustice). A woman can pull a trigger just as easy as a man, thats why the military lets them be soldiers. If someone is committing a crime against you or another, or if they are acting psychotic and pose a threat to someone that does not deserve it then its not only ok to restrain them (morally and legally), but its nearly an obligation. Women are adults and there is no reason to let them off the hook just because they are women. If it was a small child it might be different. Even an adult with mental problems should not get special treatment in that regard. Its the responsibility of their family and social services to make sure they are under a watchful eye, you don't have to place your wellbeing at risk to protect a criminal or make up for poor parenting or ineffective government or medical care. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying to go looking for excuses to hurt people. But ahimsa does not mean being a wimp, it means being responsible. Regarding your second question, the biggest problem I've had with women is rape. They think its ok for a woman to rape a man, or even a young boy. I've had them drug my food etc. The women these days are not women, they are female primates and thats how they act. Hope this helps.
Never lay your hand on a woman. If she hits you, walk away and end the relationship. If it's a stranger, walk away and call the police. If another man walks along and sees you hitting her, all he sees is you hitting her; not what led up to it. He might want to intervene. If you hit a woman you will always be on the defense. You will always have to validate why you hit her. And domestic violence is often a felony. Related Experience.....I worked with a guy once and his roommate returned home one night and found a guy sitting on top of a woman slapping the shiat out of her. He jumped out of his car, pulled the guy off, beat the dude and the girl runs inside her house to call 911. The police arrive and arrest my friend's roommate for assault, but not the other dude because she would not press charges. Don't try to be a hero, call the police.