Never good when you ask someone whether they had a boy or a girl and they say "We won't know for years." At least it never used to be but I guess that was in the old days before everyone became woke. "I have a gender studies degree." Ahh, no shiite. We figured out that it was more about you and what you wanted right out of the gate in the article. "create your own gender" is now akin to "build your own burrito." I Let My Child Create Their Own Gender Identity. The Experience Has Been a Gift for Us Both If you want to get technical, my partner Brent and I had found out our child’s sex chromosomes in the early stages of my pregnancy, and we had seen their genitals during the anatomy scan. But we didn’t think that information told us anything about our kid’s gender. The only things we really knew about our baby is that they were human, breech and going to be named Zoomer. We weren’t going to assign a gender or disclose their reproductive anatomy to people who didn’t need to know, and we were going to use the gender-neutral personal pronounsthey, them and their. We imagined it could be years before our child would tell us, in their own way, if they were a boy, a girl, nonbinary or if another gender identity fit them best. Until then, we were committed to raising our child without the expectations or restrictions of the gender binary. https://time.com/5885697/gender-creative-parenting/
Geez... I always thought it was easy. If the kid has an "outie", it's a boy. If it has an "innie", it's a girl. What's so complicated?
It's complicated among the adults now too. If you sit down when you pee, that used to mean that you were of the female persuasion. Not so anymore. Could also mean that you are a democrat male.