Post incognito question. I've got a moral dilemma that I mostly resolved but wouldn't have hurt to hear a few of the opinions I grew to trust here, including the incognito opinion of ET owner whom I would have in no way recognized because it's incognito
Start a private thread and only invite the members into it who you would value their opinions from. It wouldn't be totally incognito, but it would only be viewable by the people you want to see it.