I'm new to online dating. I've had dozens of girlfriends, dated several hundred females, I'm a legendary pua. So I'm using whatsapp. Met a hottie on dating app, did 2 zoom video calls to confirm she's who her picture shows (must-do), and we're hitting it off bigtime. I'm looking for gf, long term relationship not hku She's curvy, 24yo ebony, I'm 59. I'm loving it lol. "Don't hate the Playa, hate the game" - Will Smith So, I'm 20+ years out of the dating game. If you want, critique my game. She seems down for my dms.... lmk ur thoughts. Warning: adult themed content ahead, not for faint of heart. Rare look at actual dms used in winning over a nice young lady.
Sample dms with her from today.... screencapped from dozens of pages, just highlights from 40+ page chat. It's risque. My comments in green highlight, hers in white
I'm unashamed alpha male type, my new 24yo gf seems very responsive. Note these are excerpts of 2 hours of chat, not just all this at once. It looks pretty explicit, and it is. But I want to bring my a game, she's very pretty. Am I naughty for dating a 24yo? I'm gonna be tired af I can tell u that much. On tantan over 600 women approached/dmd me in my first 3 weeks recently, she's my #1 pick. Beats the hell out of ebay fembots lol
It's hard to analyze your chat when you left out 37 pages of it. But based upon what you posted, you're not wasting any time getting right down to the sex talk. You don't feel awkward doing that with someone you've never really hung out with in person? I've never heard of Tantan before. Why did you choose that app? Did you not post her picture because you don't want another ET member to go on the app and steal her from you? Stop. You haven't gotten laid yet. All you've done so far is talk shit with someone online.
All great points.... i started off with innocuous chat then based on her responses escalated to spicier. And no re awkward, i usedta bring ladies home from clubs..... tantan is tinder from china, mostly to meet Asian women. I got a huge response from tantan (600+) vs just ok (40ish) from tinder. tru dat re photo plus respect her privacy. she's out of state, agreed to meet me in vegas in april when i speak for trader expo... that'll be important. prob w dating apps is many have hookers or scamgirls that instantly try to get yoo offplatform so they can offer crypto investments etc... ive never had so much fun texting/zoom video in my life, its really refreshing after toxic marriage. choice: 56yo woman with no sex, argues and complains constantly or rubber women on ebay or 24yo hottie who adores you and talks dirty plus affectionate nonstop I'm taking a stoploss on the marriage and putting on new position (hopefully many) with 24yo lady. And i told her repeatedly /i'll never send her money no matter what the sob story (since theres a bunch of romance scams; which tbh this may be, tho i hope not... at least its free and fun so farP)
i hate to break the news but if she's from tantan 99.9999% she's a con artist. request for money imminent..
That's what I'm thinking. .. I told her twice I'll ghost her if she ever asks for money.... I will. Leo's say romance scam can be long con even 2-3 months before "emergency" money ask. I'll enjoy hot chats til then. Other tt scam is, get guy to undress, then blackmail photos etc. I ain't showing anything on cam... wise to all this.