Is a trader's path lonely?

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by MushinT, Jun 7, 2024.

  1. MushinT

    MushinT

    Is the trader's path lonely?o_O

    I wake up at 3:30 in the morning, make a coffee, then go trade on the German market, my trades are going well. But something came to mind today, is a trader's life really that lonely? Are there trader groups where people trade together?

    I like it, I feel alone, with no one to bother me, enjoying the day as the first rays of the sun rise.:)

    Do you feel alone negotiating, do you like it?

    A photo from my balcony today
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  2. p0box4

    p0box4

    What country are you from? What market times do you trade? Only EU session or US session as well?
     
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  3. MushinT

    MushinT

    Sou do Brasil e negocio no índice alemão, gosto muito desse índice. E de onde você é? Você negocia na sessão da UE?
     
  4. d08

    d08

    It's lonely and for many of us it works best. Ideally I'd prefer a drinking buddy that also trades, would be interesting to share some ideas in a very loose manner. In my case, the location makes it very unlikely, most who do trading are just gambling.
     
  5. MushinT

    MushinT

    A drinking friend who also trades would be really good, sometimes I talk about trades with people who don't trade, and I get euphoric, and no one understands this emotion, lol afterwards I feel embarrassed, but that's okay. I think girls like that talk more, I think. They like to talk about many things.
     
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  6. maxinger

    maxinger

    Lonely.....

    Very lonely.

    Either I talk to the wall.
    Or write something in the forum.

    Be careful if you chit chat.
    You have to concentrate, and stay focus on trading.
     
  7. p0box4

    p0box4

    I am from Europe but only trade during the US session.

    This means i have plenty of time during the day before i start trading to go out and get social, i would assume you could do the same when you are done?

    You start very early so when do you usually call it a day and stop trading for the day?
     
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  8. zdreg

    zdreg

    You found the best audience.:)
     
    Last edited: Jun 7, 2024
  9. d08

    d08

    Yeah, I'm long past any euphoria. I've found that stories about the stress and nightmares are far more entertaining for the common folk.
     
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  10. I was never much of a day trader, preferred swing trading.
    The best 10 day stretch years ago, I made $190K, triple leveraged TQQQ or maybe it was CURE.
    I'd insist to my wife we had to go to a restaurant on Friday, a nice place.
    That's when I realized my trading made me similar to a mobster.
    You can't talk about it to anyone except similar traders (or mobsters :finger:).
    If you don't work in a B/D, nobody else understands.
    My wife (of 35 years) doesn't even want to hear the details, just the P&L.
    You are not imagining the loneliness.
    It is there for most traders.
     
    #10     Jun 7, 2024