Is the trader's path lonely? I wake up at 3:30 in the morning, make a coffee, then go trade on the German market, my trades are going well. But something came to mind today, is a trader's life really that lonely? Are there trader groups where people trade together? I like it, I feel alone, with no one to bother me, enjoying the day as the first rays of the sun rise. Do you feel alone negotiating, do you like it? A photo from my balcony today
Sou do Brasil e negocio no índice alemão, gosto muito desse índice. E de onde você é? Você negocia na sessão da UE?
It's lonely and for many of us it works best. Ideally I'd prefer a drinking buddy that also trades, would be interesting to share some ideas in a very loose manner. In my case, the location makes it very unlikely, most who do trading are just gambling.
A drinking friend who also trades would be really good, sometimes I talk about trades with people who don't trade, and I get euphoric, and no one understands this emotion, lol afterwards I feel embarrassed, but that's okay. I think girls like that talk more, I think. They like to talk about many things.
Lonely..... Very lonely. Either I talk to the wall. Or write something in the forum. Be careful if you chit chat. You have to concentrate, and stay focus on trading.
I am from Europe but only trade during the US session. This means i have plenty of time during the day before i start trading to go out and get social, i would assume you could do the same when you are done? You start very early so when do you usually call it a day and stop trading for the day?
Yeah, I'm long past any euphoria. I've found that stories about the stress and nightmares are far more entertaining for the common folk.
I was never much of a day trader, preferred swing trading. The best 10 day stretch years ago, I made $190K, triple leveraged TQQQ or maybe it was CURE. I'd insist to my wife we had to go to a restaurant on Friday, a nice place. That's when I realized my trading made me similar to a mobster. You can't talk about it to anyone except similar traders (or mobsters ). If you don't work in a B/D, nobody else understands. My wife (of 35 years) doesn't even want to hear the details, just the P&L. You are not imagining the loneliness. It is there for most traders.