Facing tough contested Divorce... ideas?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by KCalhoun, Apr 23, 2023.

  1. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    I tried hard to be understanding, calm.... but my soon to be ex is beyond angry, saying she wants maximum maintenance/alimony.

    Any advice? I got a very good lawyer. Concerned this may drag things out.

    At least I'll be in Vegas soon :D
     
  2. Like I wrote in the other thread you had, it's all good until they talk to their friends and that changes the game. You are now the devil to her. The legal sicario comes in and they want your head on a stick. Just get yourself mentally prepared for an extended fight and try not to let it consume all your thoughts. Yeah, easier said than done. Don't rollover and get steamrolled in court. You'll get to the other side of this, but it'll take a minute.
     
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  3. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    Good points, thanks... agree.. she's truly pissed off. Says "be ready for anything". Her biggest complaint is I went ahead and hired a lawyer to initiate divorce without talking it over with her.

    Agree re not to get steamrolled in court. I hired a strong lawyer with great testimonials, so he'll do great in court. She keeps yelling, in cool af and am calm.... stressful times. I say things like, I'd like to be friends, work this out peacefully... she yells I'm a narcissist lol

    She wants me to pay for her lawyer, I think I'm supposed to since she's a housewife without income. Sigh. This too shall pass.

    I'm looking forward to moving to las vegas, have been talking with realtors. I'll make the condo look like like a Dean Martin pad and do the bachelor playboy life next...
     
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  4. Bugenhagen

    Bugenhagen

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  5. ElCubano

    ElCubano

    Be more scared of the attorneys than your wife.
     
  6. ph1l

    ph1l

    Hide the knives in your house.
    https://cheezburger.com/8478749952/dating-fail-woman-stabs-husband-over-terrible-dump
    Woman Stabs Husband Over "Terrible Dump"
    A japanese woman has allegedly slashed her husband across the face after he ...
    :)


    More seriously,
    https://www.stripes.com/theaters/as...-her-yokota-airman-boyfriend-in-2018-1.619622
    As murder trial opens, Japanese woman says she stabbed her Yokota airman boyfriend in 2018

    https://apnews.com/article/arizona-police-db03a8d67dcb34689c65199be1f7aeaf
    A woman threatened to stab her husband over an argument about money to move to Japan before she allegedly killed their two children with a meat cleaver in a suburban Phoenix apartment, police said Sunday.

    https://japantoday.com/category/crime/64-year-old-woman-arrested-over-murder-of-husband
    Police in Tenri, Nara Prefecture, have arrested a 64-year-old woman on suspicion of murder after she stabbed her 65-year-old husband at their home on Sunday.


    And in the future, watch out for the young ones too.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yuka_Takaoka
    Yuka Takaoka (高岡由佳, Takaoka Yuka, born January 28, 1998) is a Japanese woman who was convicted of attempted murder for stabbing her boyfriend

    https://nextshark.com/japanese-woman-stabs-man
    Japanese Woman Nearly Stabs Man to Death Because She ‘Loved Him So Much’

    A 21-YEAR-OLD JAPANESE woman from Shinjuku district, Tokyo was recently arrested after she nearly stabbed her male acquaintance to death in her apartment.
     
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  7. easymon1

    easymon1

  8. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    You guys are funny. :D
     
  9. CET

    CET

    Keep reminding her that the sooner you get the divorce resolved the sooner she can move back to Japan or wherever she is wanting to go.
     
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  10. Bugenhagen

    Bugenhagen

    Ah, that goes to explain how she has been able to tolerate him and also his Kpop fetish.
     
    #10     Apr 23, 2023