Gingrich Reconciles Cheating On His Wife While Harping On Family Values: âIt Doesnât Matter What I Doâ In a new Esquire profile, Gingrichâs second wife Marianne â whom he cheated on with his current wife, Callista â breaks her twelve year silence on her relationship with Gingrich to reveal a portrait of man who understood the deep hypocrisy of his actions, but simply didnât care: He asked her to just tolerate the affair, an offer she refused. Heâd just returned from Erie, Pennsylvania, where heâd given a speech full of high sentiments about compassion and family values. The next night, they sat talking out on their back patio in Georgia. She said, âHow do you give that speech and do what youâre doing?â âIt doesnât matter what I do,â he answered. âPeople need to hear what I have to say. Thereâs no one else who can say what I can say. It doesnât matter what I live.â Marianne, who was Gingrichâs âclosest advisorâ during his reign in the 1990s, went on to say that Gingrich âbelieves that what he says in public and how he lives donât have to be connected.â But of course, as Gingrich himself demanded when he led a crusade to impeach President Clinton for personal infidelity, politiciansâ private lives are inevitably connected to their public ones. Nonetheless, Gingrich has himself admitted to continuing his illicit affair with Callista â 23 years his junior â while simultaneously prosecuting Clintonâs adultery. Perhaps Gingrich has no qualms about committing the sins he rails against because he doesnât really believe in what he preaches. Esquireâs John Richardson notes that despite Gingrichâs apocalyptic rhetoric, when encountering radical conservative activists, Gingrich âover and over againâ¦takes the long view and becomes the very soul of probity.â âI wouldnât be able to describe what his real principles are,â former Republican Rep. Mickey Edwards said of the former speaker. âI never felt that he had any sort of a real compass about what he believed except for the pursuit of power.â