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05-13-12 02:22 PM
Quote from nursebee:
Maybe you are just an arrogant asshole loser?
What a great resume, perhaps you are over qualified and you come across as desperate when you tell them these things.
Male nurse here. The only woman who thought my sugar was sweet was the one I would not flirt with. Before that a waiter. Easy as pie to meet women. I was only happier as I became the man that the kind of woman I desired would desire. I focused on me, worked hard on that for many years.
Does a man in the military offer a woman stability? Time to move again baby? I might get shot while at work today?
Read Robert Greene book on Seduction. You need to build a conflict not lay all your cards out ie get slapped
Stop giving a damn so much, live your life. Be strong, stop being weak.
Stop looking for some love, aim for true love.
eharmony and others ROFLMAO
^This. Another good piece of advice.
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masterm1ne
Registered: Dec 2009
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05-13-12 03:59 PM
Quote from nursebee:
Maybe you are just an arrogant asshole loser?
What a great resume, perhaps you are over qualified and you come across as desperate when you tell them these things.
Male nurse here. The only woman who thought my sugar was sweet was the one I would not flirt with. Before that a waiter. Easy as pie to meet women. I was only happier as I became the man that the kind of woman I desired would desire. I focused on me, worked hard on that for many years.
Does a man in the military offer a woman stability? Time to move again baby? I might get shot while at work today?
Read Robert Greene book on Seduction. You need to build a conflict not lay all your cards out ie get slapped
Stop giving a damn so much, live your life. Be strong, stop being weak.
Stop looking for some love, aim for true love.
eharmony and others ROFLMAO
I thought a lot about your first statement.... I have been told I talk down to people and it's something i have worked hard to fix and I watch my words.. I never do this intentionally. Again, i am constantly reminded by many people how smart I am and how talented I am. This can make your head swell... the older I get though, the more I realize intelligence is irrelevant. Everyone has different gifts, and intelligence is not that easy to define.
You suggesting something that nutmeg hinted at. I read that what really women want is someone that understand them... therefore if you emulate those traits you would desire in a female partner, it would make sense this is beneficial for your attractiveness. It makes more sense when I think about all the "you're so cute/hot" i get from big women. One of the last clubs I went to the big women flock to me (danger). This one tired to take me home... They desire to be toned and athletic (myself).
The thing about the military, regardless of those true statements about death, and moving, is that in reality, almost everyone I work with is currently married. There are a few that have been married and divorced. The younger enlisted are almost all married. Most officers and civies are as well but there are more divorces in this older group.
Every day I work on accepting I just need to work on myself then look for happiness in or with other people, which is the trap i was in for a while. It's a very bad one and I realize no it's illogical.
Thanks for the book, ill read it. I like psychology. Does this make me weak wondering if there are two people that are meant to be together and happy for a long time? That's my main question. I actually don't give a lot relatively speaking. I am quite selfish, and am becoming more so. This experiences are making me even more emotionally detached from other humans. when you face multiple rejections it's a natural defense/coping mechanism. This is on top of a sense of rejection from my parents due to my own self sufficiency. (see The drama of the gifted child) My brother and sister always came first as they were more needy.
Drama of Gifted Child
Quote from Lucrum:
Another positive
[b]A positive relatively speaking but at your age and in your profession probably still not a true positive [b]OK, now you need to figure out why. Kinda hard for anyone here to say though without a video of you.
(NOT that I'm asking for one)
[b]Unless they're very close personal friends they are likely as not just being kind. [b]Another impediment no doubt although not uncommon at your age. [b]I'm still inclined to think so [b]LOL, I'm NOT laughing at you. But I am book marking this for someone else here [b]
It never hurts so far as meeting and sleeping with women goes. It does create another problem though. Do the rich guys ever really know if they are being loved for who they are or just their money?
(not that all of them would necessarily care)
Well a lot depends on perspective.... This Major I know told me 'nursing is easy' I don't really agree with this... but to him it apparently is.
You can make over 100k/yr as a RN, but you'd be in the 1% and working much more than 40hrs a week.
I make around 50k/yr (O1 with 2 yrs in ) which is above the average income. Again depends on perspective. Most people make less than me, but there are plenty people who make crazy factors of 50k...
I think the people with money have been around so many women all the time they see what I see and because women inherently want men with money (I mean who doesn't want money?) Many songs are about what I have noticed, like I said.
Take the lil wayne quote: "Had my heart broken by this woman name Tammy, but hoes gonna be hoes so I couldn't blame Tammy"
Enjoy: Tammy
Quote from nutmeg:
If it's any comfort, if you had found your one true love before now (age 24) you could look forward to your first divorce within the next few years.
By no means am I looking for marriage nutmeg, it's only a steady relationship so I can start getting a feel for the field. Yes marriage is a bad trade statistically. There is a big thread i'm sure you saw on here about marriage.
Quote from RCG Trader:
^This.
Also, look into your style of dress.
Recently revamped wardrobe most of my stuff is near formal for going out, of course I have laid back attire for in house.
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TGregg
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05-13-12 11:07 PM
Quote from masterm1ne:
. . . intelligence is irrelevant.
It may be overrated, but it is *far* from irrelevant. If you are smart (we're talkin' 98% percentile here), then going out with a bimbo will get old no matter how smokin' hot she is.
I read that what really women want is someone that understand them... therefore if you emulate those traits you would desire in a female partner, it would make sense this is beneficial for your attractiveness.
Somewhere between 50 and 75% of dating advice is utter nonsense. That's a fine example of some.
It makes more sense when I think about all the "you're so cute/hot" i get from big women. One of the last clubs I went to the big women flock to me (danger). This one tired to take me home... They desire to be toned and athletic (myself).
Fat women are always predatory. They have to be. Some places are famous for the fat chicks to hang out waiting for some decent looking guy to get wasted, then drag him to their lair. I kid you not. Also, fat chicks may smell weakness on you. They instinctivly know you don't get any prime snatch so you might be acheivable for them. Not sure about this theory though. I do know for a fact that women have very well developed intuition to get a very quick estimate of how well you do with other women.
Dating is just like every other skill. You build a framework, a collection of ideas, concepts, approaches and processes. Once I figured that out, my whole dating/sex life took an astonishingly awesome turn for the better. It doesn't matter if you just want to bang as many babes as you can or score some awesome babe to squeeze out your progeny, you can build that skill just like any other. To get you started:
http://www.laddertheory.com/
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masterm1ne
Registered: Dec 2009
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05-14-12 05:48 AM
Quote from TGregg:
If you are smart (we're talkin' 98% percentile here), then going out with a bimbo will get old no matter how smokin' hot she is.
Somewhere between 50 and 75% of dating advice is utter nonsense. That's a fine example of some.
I do know for a fact that women have very well developed intuition to get a very quick estimate of how well you do with other women.
It doesn't matter if you just want to bang as many babes as you can or score some awesome babe to squeeze out your progeny, you can build that skill just like any other. To get you started:
http://www.laddertheory.com/
I'm most likely not 98% smart, but I am smart enough to realize when I'm with a bimbo, and yes I can't stand it. I went to hooters one night with a friend and our waitress was really hot. When I asked her about psychology (what she was studying in school), she couldn't find the words to explain basic theories. She literally couldn't speak.
I read the blog in 30 min. It's reinforcing what I have come to realize over the past 2 years of 'out of school-real life' experiences. Basically the more I try to please, the closer I get to the abyss, and the more I ignore others and do me, the higher up I climb, VERY SLOWLY.
Quote from stephan31:
You are getting good information in here.
However, I could only skim this thread; it felt like I was starting to grow a vagina and then I felt like I had to wipe it.
Um--24 years old. Seriously. Get some training on how to nail pussy and concentrate on that for awhile.
Also, to stay motivated read this website
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/cate...-is-for-chumps/
peace
Hedvig
Sorry u grew a vagina. I am pretty sure I wouldn't want one. I know marriage at my age is a very bad thing to do I have personal goals I need to achieve first..... But thanks for the site, I find it's decently written and semi-scientific. I'm always dubious.
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