Registered: Dec 2009
05-13-12 12:24 AM
I can't wait for my subscription to be over on match and e-harmony. Women are such a joke. I am a 24 yr old in the military (people say it's easy for us), with a career, many talents, bilingual, pretty well off financially, little/no baggage, pretty social (I attend social event once a week almost) and it feels impossible for me to find anyone actually interested in me. If I express a tiny bit of interest in someone, it's usually met with a slap in the face..
I have asked out a lot of women that are married and aren't wearing their rings, so that doesn't count. I have even gone out some nights with these women... (where the hell is their family????). Of the other 50+ women I've tried to talk to in person AND online, I have a few messages or conversations, or get a flat out lie (I've been told by a woman she has a BF. Then I see her on match - maybe her BF doesn't know?). Usually the same thing happens, it just 'fizzles.' Of the women I actually got dates with, I was only semi-attracted to 1... out of 4.
I'm not sure what women look for in a man... Most people fundamentally want the same thing and I am pretty sure I meet most of the requirements. So then what's the problem? I guess I'm one ugly mother trucker but I am frequently told I am good looking by women. Looks like there is a pattern here (lies and mind-games - psycho-manipulation).
Love doesn't exist, I will never love anyone but myself, and my experiences online and in real life reinforce that. People say the media is full of bull-snot but I think there is good merit to songs that preach get money first and b**tches second because it is certainly validated by my experiences and the divorce rates in this country.
The only logical thing to do now is go back to my college behaviors and ignore everyone and focus on myself and my work. I guess that's sexy or something. I know I could have made at least 5 women in college. Once I got into this girls room, it was just me and her, and she was in her bed. I just sat and talked to her about nursing. After that I left. I found out later she liked me.. ok great.
Oh yea, and I'm a nurse... I am in a woman dominated field....
GL finding your 'soul mate' everyone. This could be in the trading forum as I have no edge in this game apparently.