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Smart Money
 

Registered: Dec 2004
Posts: 874

 

04-20-11 07:00 PM

Hey guys.

I have an edge. Put away your argument about whether there is such a thing as an edge or not...but my point is that I'm now consistently making money in the markets. Decent money, and while it is not as much as I thought I'd make when I first started trading, it's still enough to make the kind of wealth I'd like to have. Right?

Well here's what sucks about it. Its the lonliness of it. Don't call the suicide hotline on my behalf because it's not that bad, but it still sucks. I have a friend that I trade with who I collaborate with. I also have my wife to talk to. But in general, it sucks not being able to talk about it. I don't feel like I can tell my friends or they will have their hands out, or they'll think I'm bragging.

How do some of you successful traders cope with the fact that you can't really talk about any cool moves you made in the market, or boneheaded mistakes, or your progress, etc. Yeah...we have E.T., and I'm damn thankful for that, but I'm talking about outloud. Does it bug you not being able to talk about what you do compared to your friends who have a day job who talk about their day at work? Man, I'm busting with pride at what I'm doing and where I'm going, but I feel I have to keep a secret.

Anyone care to share?

SM

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eudaemon
 

Registered: Jan 2011
Posts: 971

 

04-20-11 07:05 PM

Buy a dog.

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Cdntrader
 

Registered: Mar 2001
Posts: 3427

 

04-20-11 07:20 PM


Quote from Smart Money:

Hey guys.

I have an edge. Put away your argument about whether there is such a thing as an edge or not...but my point is that I'm now consistently making money in the markets. Decent money, and while it is not as much as I thought I'd make when I first started trading, it's still enough to make the kind of wealth I'd like to have. Right?

Well here's what sucks about it. Its the lonliness of it. Don't call the suicide hotline on my behalf because it's not that bad, but it still sucks. I have a friend that I trade with who I collaborate with. I also have my wife to talk to. But in general, it sucks not being able to talk about it. I don't feel like I can tell my friends or they will have their hands out, or they'll think I'm bragging.

How do some of you successful traders cope with the fact that you can't really talk about any cool moves you made in the market, or boneheaded mistakes, or your progress, etc. Yeah...we have E.T., and I'm damn thankful for that, but I'm talking about outloud. Does it bug you not being able to talk about what you do compared to your friends who have a day job who talk about their day at work? Man, I'm busting with pride at what I'm doing and where I'm going, but I feel I have to keep a secret.

Anyone care to share?

SM



buy stuff

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Zr1Trader
 

Registered: Dec 2010
Posts: 1538

 

04-20-11 07:25 PM

When people ask me what I do, I tell them. If they ask what I make, (which I find disrespectful) then I say that I make enough to pay the bills. You may find people resenting you if they find you are getting rich sitting at a computer pressing buttons.

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MGJ
 

Registered: Jun 2006
Posts: 726

 

04-20-11 07:27 PM

Depending upon your level of desperation, this might be helpful -- or not -- . . . . http://www.seykota.com/tt/default.html

It's a formal manifestation of an informal idea: get some trading buddies

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caliabc
 

Registered: Feb 2009
Posts: 17

 

04-20-11 07:28 PM

Read 4 hour work week by Tim Ferriss

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