1) Above all else, I want you to think for yourself-to decide 1) what you want 2) what is true and 3) what to do about it. I want you to do that in a clear-headed thoughtful way, so that you get what you want. 2)"You learn much more from the bad experiences in your life than the good ones. Make sure you take the time to reflect on them. If you don't, a precious opportunity will have gone waste. Remember that pain plus reflection equals progress."